Wedding Budget Calculator for
Wisely Budgeting for a Wedding

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Help you to create a budget that won't put the "for poorer" vow to the test right out of the gate.

This free online Wedding Budget Calculator will help you when budgeting for a wedding by allowing you to create your own self-calculating worksheet -- either from scratch or from a sample wedding budget. You can include up to 12 categories, each with up to 15 expense items. This budgeting tool even has built-in multipliers for calculating the total cost of an expense from a unit cost. Cool!

Plus, unlike other online budget calculators, the wedding budget calculator on this page will give you the option of printing out a customized blank budget worksheet and/or a completed budget spread sheet. You can even choose whether or not you want blank lines to appear on the printed worksheet.

If you would like to budget for your honeymoon separately, be sure to visit the Travel Budget Calculator once you are done budgeting for getting married.

Don't Be Fooled By "Average Wedding Costs"

While doing the research for this calculator I was amazed at how many websites included the average cost of a wedding in their calculations. Some sites reported an average wedding cost of $29,000, and most even went so far as to base the calculated wedding costs breakdown on budgeting percentages for the various categories. It's no wonder so many couples are spending so much money on their weddings.

I can just hear the typical spouse-to-be, "Look honey, our budget is only $25,000. That means we are saving $4,000 dollars!". Well, I hate to be the one to break it to them, but "saving money" is not applicable to weddings.

In order to actually save money, a reduction must occur in the cost of an expenditure that is NOT optional. So given the fact that costs for weddings are optional expenses of getting married (except for the cost of the marriage license), this disqualifies them from being a source of any savings.

Personally, I see "average wedding costs" as being totally insignificant to the average couple who is budgeting for a wedding. In my opinion there is only one number that should dictate how much a couple should spend to get married ... the amount they have saved up to pay for the marriage. After all, if they truly want their marriage to last, then one of the worst things they can do is to start out their marriage under the stress and pressure of debt.

Financial Problems Are an All-Too-Common Reason for Divorce

Depending on who you ask, somewhere around 1/2 of all marriages end in divorce (less for first marriages and more for each additional marriage). And among those divorces, a recent study concluded that in 57% of the cases, disagreements over money was listed as the primary reason for the divorce. The question is, what causes these disagreements over money? The answer, a lack of money. Or more specifically, a lack of discretionary money.

Disagreements over money typically arise when there's not enough discretionary income for both partners to get what they want. And the primary reason there's not enough money to go around is because couples typically spend a large chunk of their future discretionary income right out of the gate. They borrow for lavish weddings, dream honeymoons, and cover of Better Homes & Garden houses -- all before the ink dries on their marriage certificate. Then, seven years later when the newness of the relationships and the newness of the dream homes are gone, and the memories of the lavish weddings and dream honeymoons have faded, along comes the future from which they have already spent all of their discretionary income. Talk about bad timing.

The Wedding IS for YOU!

If you visit a website that's trying to sell you something related to weddings, you will no doubt read the phrase, "Weddings are not for you, they are for others." Really? Here's what I say, if the "others" genuinely cared about you and your spouse-to-be, they would NEVER expect you to do anything that would put your marriage at risk.

The truth is, "others" will be so busy running their own lives they will hardly give a fleeting thought to how your marriage is doing. Your wedding day affects only one day of their lives, whereas that day will effect the rest of yours. You are the one that's going to have to deal with the opportunity costs of going into debt for the sake of having a lavish wedding on behalf of others. Opportunity costs? You bet.

The Real Average Wedding Cost: $300,000

If you listen to the wedding industry who is telling you that the average cost of a wedding is $29,000 -- which is just an excuse for you to spend that much -- you should also realize that when you spend that $29,000 you are also giving up the right to earn interest on that money ... for the rest of your life.

If two 25-year-olds were to invest the $29,000 rather than spend it on getting married, and only averaged a 6% return, by the time they reach retirement age (40 years later), their investment will have grown to $298,285.82. That's the real "average wedding cost" -- all spent for a single day.

But even worse than spending that money instead of investing it, is if you put the entire cost of getting married on an 18% credit card and make only the 3% minimum payments. If you did that you would end up spending an additional $28,698.27 in credit card interest charges (see the credit card minimum payment calculator). And guess what you could have done with those interest charges? That's right, you could have invested that money as well. And I'd be willing to bet that you will never be alerted to these opportunity costs from companies who stand to gain from your expensive wedding.

Save the Ticker Tape Parade for Important Victories

Have you ever witnessed a ticker tape parade for a professional sports team that took place before their season even started? Of course not. That's because there won't be any cause for celebration until the team wins a significant title. So why do we celebrate marriages before their "season" even begins? It's because we've been taught to believe that the more we spend on a wedding, the better our marriage will be. Too bad all of the rich and famous celebrities keep proving that theory wrong.

The bottom line is this, no amount of money spent on your wedding will insure that it will stand the test of time. But you can be sure that going into debt for a lavish wedding will put your marriage at a higher risk of failing. And for that matter, asking others to go into debt on your behalf may put their marriages at risk as well.

But, you say, we only have $300 saved up? Then I say, for the sake of the success of your marriage, you have one of two choices. Either get married in the courthouse, or postpone the marriage until you've managed to save up enough to pay for the wedding that you feel you must have. If you can't save up for something that important, how are you ever going to save enough to pay for all of the other important costs of being married (buying a house, having children, college educations, retirement, etc.)?

Now I don't mean to say that weddings are a bad thing, or that nothing good can come from spending a small fortune on them. My only intent is to offer an alternative perspective that I hope will help to offset some of the hype being thrown at you by those who stand to gain from your decisions. My only concern is that your marriage manages to last until death do you part instead of till debt do you part.

With that, let's use the Wedding Budget Calculator to create a self-calculating, custom or sample wedding budget worksheet to assist you in budgeting for a wedding.

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Instructions: Enter the total amount of money you have available for budgeting for a wedding.

Next enter the optional numbers for each type of participant/guest (used for quick calculations for variable expense items).

If you would like to have the wedding budget calculator populate the categories and items with a sample wedding budget, click the "Load Sample Wedding Budget" button. Otherwise you can enter your own budget categories, expense titles, and expense amounts. In either case the wedding budget calculator will recalculate the entire worksheet each time you make or change an entry.

Mouse over the blue question marks for a further explanation of each entry field. More in-depth explanations can be found in the glossary of terms located beneath the Wedding Budget Calculator.

Note: This calculator does not save your data. If you leave or refresh the page you will lose your entries. I suggest you print out a blank or sample budget worksheet (click the "Printable Wedding Budget Worksheet" button before making any entries), enter your preliminary data on the printed copy, and then return to the calculator to create, fine-tune, and print out your budget.

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Amount you are budgeting for a wedding: Preferably you will enter the amount you have saved up for the big day -- meaning that neither you or anyone else would have to borrow any money to get married (debt can put your marriage at risk). If you and all concerned cannot pay cash for the wedding, you should either wait until you have saved up enough cash, or scale back the size of your wedding to the point that no one has to go into debt on your behalf.

Number of bridesmaids including maid of honor: Optional: If you want to use the wedding budget calculator built-in multiplier for bridesmaids, enter the number of bridesmaids here.

Number of groomsmen including best man: Optional: If you want to use the wedding budget calculator built-in multiplier for groomsmen, enter the number of groomsmen here.

Number of other wedding participants: Optional: If you want to use the wedding budget calculator built-in multiplier for non-attendant members of your wedding party, enter the number here. The wedding budget calculator will total the bridesmaids, groomsmen, and non-attendant participants to arrive at the size of your wedding party (participants).

Number of ceremony guests expected: Optional: If you want to use the wedding budget calculator built-in multiplier for ceremony guests, enter the number of guests here.

Number of reception guests expected: Optional: If you want to use the wedding budget calculator built-in multiplier for reception guests (diners), enter the number of expected guests here.

Load Sample Wedding Budget Items button: If you would like the wedding budget calculator to populate all categories and item fields with suggested titles, along with a sampling of budget amounts, click this button. Please note that the sample budget amounts are an average taken from a multitude of sources. The $23,400 total is a preposterous amount if you ask me, but I included the sample wedding budget breakdown none-the-less. Please do not be deluded into believing that budgeting less than the "average cost of a wedding" is "saving you money." Saving money only occurs when you are able to reduce an expenditure below what you would otherwise be forced to spend. Wedding costs are non-essential expenditures, which means saving money is not applicable.

Clear Worksheet: If you would like to clear the categories, item titles, and expense amounts, click this button.

Expand All button: Click this button to view the 15 expense rows for each of the 12 categories.

Collapse All button: Click this button to view only the main category names and totals.

Wedding Budget Calculator Category Rows

Category name row: Click the [+] button to expand this section, which will display 15 separate budget lines wherein you can enter your expected expenses for this category. If the section is expanded, clicking the [-] button will collapse the category. You can name or rename the category as you see fit. The right hand column will show the total of all expenses entered into this category.

Wedding Budget Calculator Category Expense Columns

Expense Name column: Enter the names of each expense within this category. Rows with text in the Expense Name field will automatically be included in the printable wedding budget worksheet regardless of whether or not amounts are entered.

$ Amount column: Enter the expense amount that coincides with the selected multiple.

Per column: Select the appropriate multiplier for the entered expense amount. If you want to enter a multiplier, select the Times --> option and enter the amount in the field just to the right of the selection menu.

Total column: This is a calculated column that displays the total of the amount multiplied by the selected or entered multiple.

Wedding Budget Worksheet Summary Rows

Amount you are budgeting for a wedding: This is the budget amount you entered in the top section of the wedding budget calculator.

Total of all entered expenses: This is the total of all expenses you have entered into the wedding budget calculator.

Under/-Over budget: This is the amount you are over or under budget. If the result is preceded by a minus sign, your entered expenses exceed the amount you are budgeting for a wedding.

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Allow __ blank categories: Select the number of blank categories you would like included in the printable wedding budget worksheet. The maximum number of categories that will display in the worksheet is 12. For example if you have 6 categories with entries, but would like two more blanks for later use, select 2 from the drop-down menu. This will include 6 completed categories in the worksheet and two blank categories. If you are printing out a blank worksheet, simply select the total number of categories you would like included.

Allow __ blank rows per category: Select the number of blank rows you would like included for each category in the printable wedding budget worksheet. The maximum number of rows that will display for each category in the worksheet is 15. For example if you have a category with only 4 entries, but would like two more blank rows for later use, select 2 from the drop-down menu. This will include the 4 completed rows, plus two blank rows, for the category in the worksheet . If you are printing out a blank worksheet, simply select the total number of blank rows you would like included for each category.

Create Printable Wedding Budget Worksheet button: To create a printable wedding budget worksheet, click this button. This will open a printer friendly window displaying your current wedding budget worksheet.

Clear All button: If you would like to restore the wedding budget calculator to its original state, click this button.

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